The Impact of Your Partner on Premature Ejaculation

The Impact of Your Partner on Premature Ejaculation

As much as men don’t want to admit to premature ejaculation or their personal reasons for it, the fact is that your partner can have a lot to do with both the problem and the cure. It is very important to bring your partner in on your sexual dysfunctions and make her (or him) aware of the fact that you are having problems with maintaining an erection and ways that your partner can help. Although the conversation may seem frightening at the time, when you are finished, you will probably feel less stressed out and anxious which is all to the good when searching for a cure for premature ejaculation.  How can your partner contribute to both the problem and the solution?

How Your Partner May Be Helping the Problem

There are a number of ways that your partner can help the problem of premature ejaculation and if this sounds like it’s happening to you, it’s important to discuss it. Make sure you are accusatory about it or angry because it could well be that your partner doesn’t even realize what’s going on and will be hurt by accusations.

• Unresponsive sexual partner. This is prevalent among women, particularly those suffering from stress, depression or a recent birth. In this case, the woman is the one hurrying the sex along (most likely so she can sleep!) and this in turn speeds up the male and knocks him spinning into premature ejaculation.
• Unsupportive or insulting. A partner who is constantly deriding you will end up knocking off your confidence which will translate to problems in the bedroom and cause of cycle of insults and worse performance. In this case, counselling may be in order.
• Insistence on missionary position. The missionary position is more likely to cause premature ejaculation than other positions because of stress on the abdominal and pelvic region.

Other problems may be things like poor health and diet, anger in the relationship, and distance problems, but these have to worked out from couple to couple.

How Your Partner Can Help to Solve the Problem

As much as men would like to blame their partner, a good partner can also help to fix the problem, so it’s very important to tell her or him what’s going on. Then there are a few ways that your partner can help you cure premature ejaculation.

• Aid in the start-stop method. The start-stop method is one of the sure fire methods to cure premature ejaculation and your partner can help by providing stimulation and helping you to stop yourself at the edge.
• Encourage a changing of positions.
• Remain supportive and encouraging throughout sexual encounters
• Do things like reduce and then increase stimulation several times

In general, a dose of creativity and understanding is what a good partner will give in order to help you manage and cure premature ejaculation.

As you can see, it is very important to bring your partner in on managing your premature ejaculation, both because she or he may be having an impact on it and then can definitely help in curing the problem. It may be embarrassing to talk about it, but in the long run, it is far more beneficial than damaging to do so. If you want to cure premature ejaculation, make sure to enlist the help of your partner and you’ll find that you’ll have more success.